Question: I think that in the general public, single men approach a girl with a friendly attitude in the beginning that progressively becomes a sexual attitude. This is the change of content and meta messages a man is claiming to initiate. Predator VS Prey. The woman is fascinated by the mans desire. So she then gives herself to him.

Excuse my wording I have not yet developed my English writing skills completely.

Answer: Sure, one of the biggest problems today is that men don’t advance to sexuality. There’s a ton of women out there with men who are just their friends… Why? Because the men doesn’t want more, he’s gay? He doesn’t like her?

No, simply because he never moved into a sexual direction.

With feminism have come a lot of changes to society. A lot of them positive, but a lot of side-effects as well. One of the major side-effects is that in trying to tame jerks, the side-effects is that a lot of normal, good guys were driven to sexual shame. To the point where they fear being sexual around a woman, out of fear being “too forward”, or “a jerk” or “sexual harasser”.

You’re not a jerk if you make a move on a woman.

You’re a jerk if she’s not interested and you KEEP making moves.

Huge difference.

A first move is NEVER ever wrong.

Unless she’s married or has it made it perfectly clear she’s not interested.

Question:

Hey I took the dating quiz, really good stuff, I loved the analysis. But, Y’know, I got a question about those seminars (books, etc..), similar to Tom Cruise in Magnolia, where a guy inspires and teaches men about how ineffective their natural instincts & logic are for picking up women. They teach how to become an alpha male and use techniques that take advantage of more lamentable parts of women’s nature. What do feminists think about this?

Answer:

What feminists think is pretty irrelevant. For several reasons:

1) Feminists are ugly and fat and/or socially uncalibrated (socially unpopular, not exactly the hot girl that guys are fawning over)
2) These seminars are not about picking up feminists

Now that irritated some feminists, which i love coz they get irritated so easily, they take everything personally. Watch them post 29 insults on this post in the comments

Let me correct you on something: These seminars do NOT teach you how to ” take advantage of more lamentable parts of women’s nature”. Or maybe you do, based on how you view things.

If you view “becoming a sexy, hot, charming, confident man” as a “manipulating women into liking you”, then sure, that is correct sir.

The definition of “manipulation” is “to exert an effect upon”. If your mother comes to your home and hugs you, and it makes you feel good… then by definition, your mother “has manipulated you into feeling good”.

” take advantage of more lamentable parts of women’s nature”.

If you view a woman’s instinct to get attracted to high-status, charming, great conversationalists who know what they’re doing… if you view that as a “lamentable part of women’s nature”…

Then learning how to behave and be a high-status charming man is “taking advantage of lamentable parts”.

Facts:

-It works

Parables:

“Never understimate a woman’s ability to rationalize”.

Ask a hot woman what she wants “oh i want a guy who opens my doors and brings me roses and is just himself and just is always super nice to me and…

Then ask her when was the last time she dates this guy… Watch the excuses fly…

Especially coz currently she’s dating the biker who doesn’t fit a single of those things she said.

Question:

PLEASE TIPS on flirting?

Answer:

Slowly move your knee towards hers until they touch lightly. Make sure that you touch her’s lightly so she doesn’t think you need more room for your legs.

Touch her hand when you laugh. While you’re sitting, move your chair closer to hers.

Give her hugs for no reason.

If there is a strand of hair that’s falling in her face, tuck it behind her ear. (It can be incredibly romantic, and will make her meltif done right.)

Put your hands around her waist from behind. If she likes you she’ll most likely lean back on you.

Once you’ve tried this stuff and she allows it try grabbing her by the waist and swing her around. If done correctly you’ll get something out of it. (beware: some girls are ticklish and tend to involuntarily squeal very loudly when their waists are grabbed.)

When sitting next to her at a table, always have your hand really close to hers, or even put your hand on her’s “accidentally”, if she likes you she’ll smile.

If you’re already friends and you’re watching a movie, reading, or just talking with friends, go over and lie with your head in her lap. Let her play with your hair. If she pushes you off, just laugh. Only works if you’ve flirted a lot before.

When your walking next to her, push her gently off the sidewalk/path, she’ll probably push you back.
If your sitting at a table/desk across from her, gently put your feet on top of hers. Play footsie, it might seem a little “elementary school” but girls like it. If she looks under the table and then smiles, she wanted to find out if it was you.

Tickling is a great way to flirt. Tickle her under her ribs,if she like you, she’ll grab your hands and push you back, probably smiling or laughing. If she doesn’t, she probably wont grab your hands- she’ll either just pull away, or slap them away.

He’s already showed attraction towards me but i’m so shy all I can do is just smile and say thanx!

Just keep going back

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nerves always stop us doin things lol…jus bite the bullet n ask the man……he can only say no

i want to like have her open it or something and balloons with prom? on them. is that good?

any other suggestions? i work with her too if that helps

You could put a background colour by putting up some paper that's long enough to fit the whole thing. Then have "Prom with me?" going down like:
Prom
With
Me?
In nice colours that she likes.
You could also put streamers up inside the lockers and maybe have some kind of inside joke in there somewhere.

Can you get a really outgoing guy who is friednly with lots of girls but afraid of asking a girl out?

yes cuz I am like that….I'm very outgoing with my friends and best buddies but I get really shy when it comes to asking out girls……but I still do it cuz I kno I gotta do it lol…..shyness goes away after a bit……I usually have panic attacks sometimes when I don't know what might happen after I say something………

I have heard outragous pick up lines over the years, (such as: Girl you so sweet I got a tooth ache.) but I still cannot believe anyone is actually lame enough to use them. Do they? What have you heard used?
Full points to the best pickup line (and by best I mean corniest)

"Your father must have been a thief, because he stole the stars and put them in your eyes"

"How do you like you eggs in the morning, scrambled or fetilized?"

"Do you wash yout pants with windex, 'cause I can see myself in them"

just need some fun pick up lines to use on a lady

Are you a parking ticket?

… because you have FINE written all over you.

It seems now and days to be easier to meet women online then in public places. I've met women on several web sites and they seem more trusting then women I meet at a bar or gym. What is the deal?

I think women can let their guard down a little online. I have very low self esteem and find it difficult to speak to men I'm interested in in a public setting like a bar or party. I guess being on an online dating site people have a little more info about you and don't base their first impression only on appearance or what you're wearing.

I don't think I'm more trusting of anyone I've met online or in a bar. Although, when I meet someone online I get their full name and Google them and see if they're on the national sex offender registry before I meet them.