So, what’s the magical secret about talking to girls that you like… the magical secret is…
Talking to them in the same way that you talk to other girls you approach, talk to… and then get a date with.
You’re not doing that? You don’t know how to just approach attractive girls you see, make them laugh and then get a date with them? Well… That’s what you need to learn first, because, the odds are… that If you approach a girl that you really really like, and you act inexperienced and don’t know what to do… You actually will make her disappointed and make her lose her attraction to you.
So what’s the plan?
1) Get good at approaching girls in general, get yourself to the point where you can talk to any girl, anywhere and have her laughing and enjoying herself
2a) In the meantime, just look at the girls you really like as just some other female friends… don’t prevent things from happening… but just don’t force something to happen. If it does, that’s great, and if it doesn’t… that’s great too.
Or, if this is a girl who you do see on a regular basis… Like a girl in class, your workplace, a club you frequent… then go with
2b) Then go ahead and just befriend all her friends… become a great conversationalist and the guy they all love hanging around, and you get to both practice your “talking to women” skills, and you get more odds at something “just happening” with the girl you like… But do keep on practicing number 1 in same time… as well
For guides on how to achieve point 1, look at the different books on how to approach girls
