I hear and see this question all over the place: “How do I talk to girls?!”. I even get it from guys who took my secret quiz! I’m not kidding! Even people who took my quiz and got personalized results on how to do it, are still emailing me and asking me how to talk to girls… so I decided to write a nice overview article on it… So how do you talk to girls?
The smart ass answer: The same way you talk to everyone else.
Now… Whenever I hear the question “how do I talk to girls?”… i know there’s something deeper there. These guys really aren’t asking how to talk to girls. They already know how to talk to girls. They already have a male best friend that they talk to effortlessly. What they REALLY want to know is:
“how do i feel comfortable in approaching a girl and how do i make her like me? ”
“what do I say to that girl so i don’t get rejected? ”
“what do i talk to her about so she likes me and is impressed by me?”
…. Now THESE are the real issues!
To quote one what of my mentors on this skill of “how to talk to girls”, he said… “the great secret to being great with women is to go out and interact with as many of them as possible”. It really is that simple… The more girls you talk to, the better and better you will get.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the dating report to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see how you stand with women, with the secret dating report.
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im going to be a freshmen in highschool and i want to know how to talk to girls and get them to want to be around me, and im not that good looking
It seems I’ve learnt a little bit from your article, hopefully I hope it is useful, i’ll be on my way