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Question: I’m not great at asking girls out but there’s a shop next door to where I’m working at the moment. A girl works there on the checkout and I really like her and Im pretty sure she likes me too. She seems like the quiet type.

I want to ask her out, whats the best way of doing this and what do I say to her? Oh and Im 20 years old, if that makes any difference.

Answer:

Well, I’m going to make a guess here. You’re not really asking me “how do I ask her out”… You already know that, you just say “Hey want to go out some time?”. What I THINK you’re really asking is “How do I ask her out in a way that maximizes my chances of success, and how do I do it in a respectful, cool way”.

Glad you asked -> Here’s how…

See, what you want to do is set it up first. What you really want to do first is do most of the work before you even utter any of those words. You want to make fairly certain that she’s interested, and let her know that you’re interested before you even ask her out. The way you do is go over and find an excuse to talk to her a few times, like check things out. As you’re doing this, SMILE a huge, flirty smile that says “I want you girl” and look into her eyes with a flirty smile. Crack a joke, flirt, say something irrelevant and see how she reacts. Do this a couple of times, and flirt a couple of times with her to see how she responds. Does she react neutral, does she respond in a cold manner? Does she flirt back and even make it even more apparent?

Next, go into the store, and just put yourself in her LINE OF SIGHT. Like find an excuse to be somewhere she can see  you, like checking out mags, or whatever, and notice if she keeps looking your way, trying to get your attention. Note that this is easy to overdo. I only want you to flirt with her a few times, and only maybe do this “is she noticing me” test only ONCE. Trust me, if she is attracted to you AT ALL, she will keep glancing at you.

If she does keep glancing at you, right after this test, go to her check-out, flirt again, and slip her your card. I find this to be the most subtle way as you won’t embarrass her by asking her out in front of everyone (while she’s working in check-out), and you can write a cute message on the back of the card. After you do this, don’t walk into that store again unless she messages you or calls you.

Here is a nice article by some guy who obviously hasnt taken my secret quiz. The article is ok, it has some good points, and you might find it useful if you’ve already taken the quiz yourself.

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Attracting beautiful girls certainly isn’t just for the good appearing rich guy. Anyone can learn how to do it with a small bit know-how and practice. Here are 3 easy tricks to use… Attract Girl

1) Create a Nice Appearance For Yourself- You really want to work at this and do some research if you want to attract beautiful girls. You don’t just want to go out wearing the same old thing that you always do, especially if you aren’t having any luck with the ladies right now! Get some magazines and emulate the looks of guys that girls consider “hot”. You’ll be surprised at how differently girls will treat you when you make a real effort with your appearance. They think, wow, he’s dressed cool, he is cool.

2) Work On Some Good Lines To Use- This doesn’t mean you want to say, “do you know what would look good on you…me”, or some other scum-bag line like that. This means work it out in your head a few compliments you will give a girl that you find attractive. Then work out a line you will say if she just comes back with just a “thanks”. You want to keep her talking. Attract Girl

You want to just play out the conversation in your head that you will have with a girl that you are trying to give heart felt compliments to. You want to envision what it will be like to break into her shell that she has put up around herself. You want to get her to laugh a few times and think, “oh, this guy isn’t so bad”. NOW you’re in!

3) Ditch Her If She Won’t Respond- If you have joked with her, complimented her, presented yourself well, and she still gives you the cold shoulder? Ditch her. Fine. You won’t like being with a girl like that anyway. No big deal. Who cares? Of course, this attitude shift from being interested in her to all of a sudden not caring will drive her crazy! She might start coming back to you a little later. The tables will be turned at that point! Start taking actions to Change your social life forever! Get your Attract Girl now.

Here is a nice article by some guy who obviously hasnt taken my secret quiz. The article is ok, it has some good points, and you might find it useful if you’ve already taken the quiz yourself.

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Not everyone is born a Don Juan or a Romeo who can make romantic pick up lines seem easy as ordering pizza on the phone. You might require a little practice (and maybe even a bit of liquid courage) before you can attempt to test them out on a woman, but that doesn’t mean you can’t.

Romantic pick up lines are the best way to lighten the mood or make it even more intimate. It all depends on what line you use and how you convey it. If you’re interested, I have collected some of the most effective lines you can use.

Romantic Pick Up Lines Sample 1: “Shall we talk or keep flirting from a distance?”

This line is perfect if you don’t know who the girl is. It contains underlying tones of “funny romantic.” However, make sure you two have already made eye contact several times before you use this line.

Romantic Pick Up Lines Sample 2: “Hey, don’t I know you? Yeah, you’re the girl with the beautiful smile.”

This is a new spin on the tried and tired “You look familiar; do I know you” version. It’s simple and not too far-fetched that the girl would think you’re just playing with her. Besides, it’s really easy to mean a line like this one, and you’ll probably earn yourself a smile and a blush at least!

Romantic Pick Up Lines Sample 3: “Do you believe in love at first sight or should I walk by again?”

No girl can resist wit and romance in one package. Even if your girl doesn’t really believe in love at first sight, the idea that you came up with something as witty as this will reel her in.

Romantic pick up lines might not be your best forte, but a little practice will go a long way. Make sure you understand the context of these lines, too. With confidence and just the right attitude, I believe you’ll be able to sweep any girl’s feet.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: I was out with my friends the other night and one of my friends asked me to be wingwan. Anyways we were talking to some girls and he said to one of the girls “sorry i coughed in ur ear but baby ur butt is smoking”. Who else has used/or heard bad pick up lines?

Answer:

Dude, I am going to REVEAL the secret to you about bad-lines… Its a secret that not even women know (conciously at least). Let me start-off with a story before I tell you about the secret… see… I had a bunch of friends who had this bet thing going on… It went like this “I bet you a 100$ that you can’t give me a line that I will bomb with”… And they always won. No matter how bad, or idiotic or stupid of a line you gave one of them, they’d approach a girl, and she’d be smiling and flirting with them.

The secret is: There are no bad lines, only bad line-deliveries. Now obviously, this was just to prove a point, and you don’t wanna go around and bombard random women with creepy, cheesey lines… But you do wanna focus on how you approach the woman, before you say anything. Here’s what these guys did in order to make any line work.

1) First, they’d align themselves to the woman, make sure they stand in her line of sight… Catch her eye, and smile with a very friendly, very approachable smile. Because, see, the number one reason for women reacting badly to an approach is you coming out of nowhere, with no eye-contact and basically dropping on her out of nowhere and startling her
2) Approach her, while holding a super-friendly and approachable vibe
3) Adjust based on the line. If its a stupid, corny, dumb line, he delivers it in such a way where he’s sub-communicating “Hey, this is a funny stupid line, i’m pretending to be a dumbass to make you laugh”… If the line is stupid, he literally delivers it almost in a way as if he’s making fun of dumbasess who use a line like that. Almost like a parody.

My point to you is. I want you to pick a line, and go approach women you like, until you get to the point that every woman reacts well to that line (or atleast 9  out of 10 women). Obviously you don’t have to (and shouldn’t) pick a super-dumb horrible line… Just pick an ok one, and do it. The goal is to develop your non-verbals and how you come across to the point where you always get great reactions. That way you practice YOU, how YOU come across instead of continually looking for pick-up-lines. By continually changing the pick-up-line, you’re blaming the line for bombing, instead of adjusting your approach (how you come across).

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: It has come up again in my life and I am still unsure of how to go about doing this. I have no problem asking girls out. That’s simple to me (scary, but simple enough to do it). The problem comes with asking a girl out that ALWAYS is with her friend, or friends. Whenever I talk to her, I try to include her friend in out of respect and to be friendly. But asking the target girl out is so selective, how can it be done? The only time I ever see this girl is when she is with her friend.

Answer: Its simple dude… If you’re never in a situation that you’re alone with the girl you like, its pretty obvious to me what you’re doing. You want to, and are asking girls out that you’re not so friendly with yet. In other words, you ask a girl out while the only thing you know about her is that she’s cute.

Here’s what I’d suggest… How about befriending her, her friend and her entire group first? You know… girls are good for other things than sex and/or a relationship. So, if she’s genuinely cool to date, she’d be really cool to socialize with first – no need to rush for the date. So invite her entire group out somewhere, like a party or going out, or whatever.

Its a bit-longer-term thinking, but trust me, in the end YOU win. You all go out, you, her, her friends, your friends. And even if you and her don’t end up doing something, maybe some of your guy friends hook up with her female friends. So try that on for a size.

Here is a nice article by some guy who obviously hasnt taken my secret quiz. The article is ok, it has some good points, and you might find it useful if you have already taken the quiz yourself.

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Using your mobile phone in sending text messages to girls is very easy. You just have to send a short message to a girl, asking her on a date. This would also be the easiest way for girls to reject you. Since she don`t see you personally when she sends out a ‘no’, simply typing out that word is easy for her.

Basically, what you have to do is make use of psychological prompts to get girls to say ‘yes’ to your date offers through messages. et`s find out how and why now:

How To Ask A Girl for a date Through Your mobile phone successfully:

1. You have to make sure your very first message makes a good impression in her head. Even though she may delete your message from her inbox, you can ensure that she remembers you all throughout the day, even long after the message has been read. Again: make the message unforgettable.

First impressions always last and that counts in the world of texting, too. You need to type out each and every word, no matter how many accepted acronyms exist for it, to make you even more interesting in her eyes.

2. Flirt through exchanging messages helps. Flirting through one-liners is harder than you might think, but there are effective ways to flirt through text that can capture a girl’s heart. First of all, you need to send suggestive texts. It would also help if you came up with a personal nickname for her, preferably one that makes it sound like she is already your girlfriend.

Then, refer to an amazing quality of hers that you might have noticed when you first met. Describe the color of her eyes or the smell of her perfume, for example.

3. Offer a date on a silver platter. After exchanging several messages, and teasing and flirting to your satisfaction, it would be high time to ask her on that date. Do so casually to avoid scaring her away, though. Make sure you don’t actually “ask” her, either, so she doesn’t get to say ‘no’. Simply phrase the request in the form of statement, like “We’ll be seeing a movie this weekend.”

These 3 easy principles should be enough to allow you to succeed in flirting with a girl, but you can crank the heat up even more with hypnosis methods such as fractionation to truly seduce her and make her date you.

This method involvs using simpe “convincing”words when you text her so that she feels curioused by you – in such a way that she would be interested enough to go out with you. It’s flambouyantly effective! I bet, no girl will reject your offer.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: So, I’m on a Division I college track team, and there is this girl who’s also on the team. I find her especially cute and attractive. I’m still pretty new to asking girls out and dating, so I have no idea how to ask her out a “date” persay. I don’t even have her number yet, so I’m lookin out for a segway to ask her out, or to spend a night with her. How would you go about asking a girl out in college?

Answer: Its simple. You know how to ask her out… So I’m going to answer the REAL question you’re asking. What you’re really asking is “how do I gather the courage to ask her out”, or “how do I ask her out in a way that minimizes rejection and increases odds of her saying yes”. Am I right? Coz really, asking out is simple “Do you wanna go out sometime” LOL.

So, how do you decrease the odds of a rejection? Well, there are a few ways, but the one I prefer for a newbie is going indirectly. Befriend and talk to some of her friends, and when ready, tell them you’re interested in her, and what do they think about that, if she’d be into it. I’m reffering to her female friends of course, because her male friends might be into her and jealous lol… And if you don’t have the ability to befriend girls, that’s what you need to work on. I know you want a quick fix on how to ask her out, but dude, if you can’t befriend girls, than you have a much bigger problem than dating and I suggest you handle that first!

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: So i really like this girl and im a shy guy when it comes to asking girls out. I dont know why this happens i guess i afraid of rejection so how do i man up and ask her out. How do i become a man and ask her out without being scared? And wat do i do if she says no? Also wat would after i she say yes?!!

Answer: Well, I’m going to ti give you an answer you’re not gonna like, but you need to hear it… There is nothing I can tell you, or give you, that will magically make you be able to go out tomorrow and ask her out. We’ve all been there, but it takes a while to overcome.

So how do you overcome it? My suggestion, get good with girls in other areas first. You want to make as many female friends as you can. This will make you a lot more comfortable and at ease around women. Besides, female friends are really cool, and will often set you up with their female friends… So in that way… there’s a double bonus… You get to befriend and become intimate with girls without ever asking them out (an intimate friendship with a girls is really going to ease you into being comfortable with women)… And number two, you get dates and relationships with girls (you get set up with girls) -> this makes you even further comfortable with girls.

Do the above, and in no time, you’ll find that asking girls out, has suddenly, and out of nowhere become a non-issue. But again, you need to focus on befriending and socializing with girls, instead of on asking them out.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: Tell me some of the best, worst, lamest pick up lines you’ve ever used or had used on you.
Just a matter of interest.

Answer: I have a confession to make… I’ve never used stupid, crappy or lame pickup lines… But I have used every single good, solid, and intelligent, common sense line in existence. Here’s a few for an example (they all work, all the time):

- Hey, I hope I’m not interrupting you, I just wanted to say I think you’re cute. [if its a random girl that didn't invite you ahead of time or give you a signal]
- Hi, Nice to meet you [If she invited you by staring at you and doing the eye-game thing]
- Hey, how you guys doing [A group of girls at a social place, like a house party]

Basically anything that gauges the situation. Social vs. not-social and invited vs. non-invited.

Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.

Question: i really like this girl but im really shy and im afraid she might think im ugly or fat (200 pounds about 5′10) . what should i do?

Answer: What you wanna do is realize a few things first…

1) You’re not ugly, almost no one is
2) There are a ton of girls out there who are JUST like her, and who think you’re cute, you just need to meet/find them
3) She might or she might not be interested and a) Its a lot easier to ask a girl out if you know she’s interested and b) Its very easy to find out if she’s interested first

So, what you wanna do for now, as a shy guy is just focus on finding out if she’s interested. How do you do this? Just use most opportunities to occasionally throw glances her way every now and then. Just try to smile, or at least have a friendly face, and occassionally glance her way. If she glances back and smiles, you’re in.

In this case, communicate interest in her, back and forth, until you get the courage to go ask her out. And if you notice you don’t, no matter how much she invites you with her eyes, than go for an indirect route, tell a mutual friend that you’re interested in her. This is a lot easier than asking her out directly, and female friends of her are happy to set you two up.

However…

If she never glances back your way, or only by accident, she’s not into you, so go ahead, and find and befriend another 10 girls just like her… This will dissolve your shyness and get you out of it. Make it your goal to become a really, really good male friend to a lot of cool girls who are just like her, what you’ll find is your shyness will dissolve, and over time, at least a few of time will hit on you.