Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: So, I’m on a Division I college track team, and there is this girl who’s also on the team. I find her especially cute and attractive. I’m still pretty new to asking girls out and dating, so I have no idea how to ask her out a “date” persay. I don’t even have her number yet, so I’m lookin out for a segway to ask her out, or to spend a night with her. How would you go about asking a girl out in college?
Answer: Its simple. You know how to ask her out… So I’m going to answer the REAL question you’re asking. What you’re really asking is “how do I gather the courage to ask her out”, or “how do I ask her out in a way that minimizes rejection and increases odds of her saying yes”. Am I right? Coz really, asking out is simple “Do you wanna go out sometime” LOL.
So, how do you decrease the odds of a rejection? Well, there are a few ways, but the one I prefer for a newbie is going indirectly. Befriend and talk to some of her friends, and when ready, tell them you’re interested in her, and what do they think about that, if she’d be into it. I’m reffering to her female friends of course, because her male friends might be into her and jealous lol… And if you don’t have the ability to befriend girls, that’s what you need to work on. I know you want a quick fix on how to ask her out, but dude, if you can’t befriend girls, than you have a much bigger problem than dating and I suggest you handle that first!
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Just try starting out small. Ask her if she wants to grab a meal with you after practice. If she agrees, you can use the opportunity to get to know her a little better. Then go from there. If you find out she likes movies or music or whatever, invite her to attend those sorts of things with you. When you feel the relationship is comfortable and she may be interested in you too, bite the bullet and ask her out.
Good luck!
The best way to ask a girl out is to be confident, but not creepy. Start a conversation with her about the track team or whatever and let the conversation progress naturally. If you get stuck, just ask her questions about track, school, campus, whatever.
Ask her if she has heard about a party, concert, whatever is going on around campus and if she would like to go with you (for example: “Hey, did you hear about the open mic night at the campus theatre? It’s a ton of fun, you should come with me this weekend”) Don’t just do the “can I get your number” thing as it is tacky. Make plans with her first, then get her number.
If you want to know what “game” is, watch the movie “office space” and pay attention to the part where he asks out Jennifer Anniston. Smooth and confident, but not pushy.
you don’t need to say do you want to go out, or do you want to ate me. this makes it very hard for you and the girl your asking out. just say things like do you want to go to the movies, or hiking, or to go the beach. this way the girl you are asking out won’t be embarrassed when you say dating, or do out, and when you talk to her never go in to things like i love you, or do you like me. those stuff gotta want.
hopes this helps
denny 7 years old
just try to be natural and start with something small like getting her number! then ask her if she wants to go to the movies a club , or forlunch sometime that week.
use some catchy Phrase like “You make my heart run a marathon” or something like that
i suggest u use ur mouth
lol………..:)
hey man how fast is your 100m time? I am in JC about to transfer full ride somewhere, I run a 10.37. what about you man?