I have a had a couple of women I did not find attractive walk up to me start a conversation and all but ask me for my number. I didn’t want be rude and also didn’t want lead them on to where they flat out made me say no thank you. I imagine this is not fun for women when I happens not just once in a blue moon. As a guy I have asked out women I met through friends and they are always flattered though usually just started dating another guy or were not my type.

walking up to a women in public and and talking can be fun asking them if they want get together or grab coffee sometime is another story. Women appear judge men they have no social proof of (met they just met) quickly and harshly. They are suspect of your intentions , honesty , and will look for any flaw they can find. Ask them on for coffee you are a cheapskate or its too casual you are a boy not a man. Ask them to dinner you are too forward. No matter what happens you are getting picked apart judged for one reason or another.

No thanks or even sorry I’m seeing someone (even if it’s a lie) is a nice way to react. Not all women do this and to be fair some that do have been conditioned be the endless passes of jerks and weirdos. I know women who asked out one guy were rejected , not even harshly. They freaked out acted bitter , hurt etc and that was one time.

Women need to do more than twirl hair or give off easily misinterpreted signals. Is she being nice, is she friendly or interested. You don’t have ask us out but feel free to talk to us , mention things you like give a little compliment I like your shirt , I love that band too, etc. I’ve been wanting to see x movie or have you tried x restaurant I really like the food there is a sure way to to get asked out. Instead the is supposed to express interet make the invitation , then

you (bold girl) said, “I’m sorry, but I am seriously frustrated with the gutlessness of guys these days.”

we guys are just as frustrated with the gutlessness of women as you are with guys. we guys say, “We’re sorry, but we are seriously frustrated that women claim to want equality with men but are afraid to do anything about it.”

bold girl, any women reading any of these comments should ask themselves, “why should men feel any differently about dating than women do?” if you women are wondering why a certain guy doesn’t ask you out, but you’re NOT thinking, “it must be for the same reasons that i’m not asking him out,” you ought to have your heads examined. seriously.

you want the benefits of equality with men, but none of the responsibilities that come with this equality. modern men are well aware of this. the curious thing is why more modern women seem so f______n clueless. you (modern women) think you’re so smart because many of you have university degrees and good jobs, yet you continue to ask yourselves questions like, “why doesn’t he ask me out?” and you continue to expect men to AUTOMATICALLY pay for dinner.

come one ladies. give your brains a chance. we guys are becoming aware of your scam. it won’t be long until you won’t get a date until you do roughly half the asking. it’s only a question of time. the times, they are a changin.

and if you’re thinking, “well,if he won’t ask me out, he won’t get to have sex with me then,” well hey, we’re not gettin any anyway. it can’t get any worse. we might as well put the ball in your lap for a change. see how you like it.

I get the sense that men are afraid to asking women out nowadays, but they also don’t want a woman to take the reigns and ask them out.

Bullshit. All men like it when a woman asks them out. If you ask a guy out and its not working out, welcome to the world of adults, that’s what’s known as REJECTION.

I understand that everyone doesn’t want to date me, and that’s cool, but for god sakes if we’re hitting it off why can’t they just ask for my number? Is it that scary?

Yes, because a person can only take so much pain before starting to be afraid of the pain-inducer. You have your sisters to thank for this. You see, these days, the average man gets rejected about 50 times for every one successful attempt. Every single one of these rejections actually hurts physically. Especially since at least 1/4 of women these days are bitches. They do not know how to let a guy go down easy, but they feel the need to ridicule, make fun of, put down and harshly attack a man for daring ask her out.

Most women who talk to us, if we ask them for their phone number, they reject us. When I personally had a breakdown period, it was after I was just rejected for the 50th time in a row. This girl was really positive, and what seemed like flirty and friendly… Asked her to continue this conversation some time… SLAM… rejection. I actually had a nervious breakdown and cried for like a month straight. I had decided I swore off of women forever. I had enough of it I thought… Life is unfair, women are evil, yadda, yadda, yadda… In that whole “fuck women” period I had, there were dozens of women who wanted me for sure, that I never did anything, because I was still in my hurt period.

Now, this was years ago, but it was a painful experience and it actually lasted me a while. Women are frustrating.

If I wasn’t interested I wouldn’t have talk to you.

So the only reason you’d ever open your mouth with a male is if you want him? Do you hate men or something? Are we all a piece of meat and you only talk to one of us if you’re interested sexually?

I’m being facetious obviously, but you see the point… Studies show 93% of ALL men, miss ALL signs of interest. In other words, we are unable to tell if a woman is interested or not. When I say miss signs, I mean all those signs you think ARE obvious and 100% sure he’s noticed… Well he hasn’t. He’s blind to them.

Since we can’t know if a girl is interested by signals, we ask girls out based on whether 1) She’s not completely hostile and 2) If we find her attractive. This is why men on average get 50 rejection for every one success. And each one of those is like a adding salt to the wound.

I’m sorry, but I am seriously frustrated with the gutlessness of guys these days.

And guys are seriously frustrated with selfish narcissistic girls these days who can’t for even second put themselves in a guy’s shoes. Girls who think that just because they saw it in a romance novel, every guy should be ideally smooth and charismatic, every time, every place. Forgetting we men have emotions and feelings too. For some reason, we aren’t allowed to have feelings. If we have feelings, we’re “gutless”. You know what? Fuck you! You ask for the phone number. He doesn’t owe this action to you.

If he’s not asking for your number:

1) He’s not interested
2) He’s been rejected so many times by your sisters, that he no longer wants to roll the dice, not worth it.

So don’t be a hypocrite. If you like him, you ask him out. You get his number, and stop whining about how men aren’t like in your fantasies.