A question that is on everyone’s mind, even though most won’t admit it… “how do you approach a girl you do not know?”. How to approach a girl you do not know!?!
Simple… The same way you approach a girl you do know.
It might seem like a wise-ass answer, but that truly is the most stunningly elegant answer that just summarizes everything about what it takes to have a successful approach with women you do not know.
If you were to study the subject, and one of the 100s of articles on the topic that we have on this blog… and you actually read every single litlle bit of information on the subject of approaching strangers… and then APPLIED it… You would come to the conclusion that approaching women you do not know is entirely about being and appearing cool, calm and confident…
If you are to go out and watch the best of the best playas in the world approaching women (as I have)… The first thing you would notice is that you woulnd’t be able to notice anything… It seems… NORMAL… it looks like just two friends talking… In fact, if you were to watch such a man meeting women, you wouldn’t able to actually tell if he’s greeting an old friend, or if it’s a new girl that he is meeting… that is until he pulls out his hand and says “oh, btw… my name is”. This… btw is what girls mean when they say “be yourself”… It means being relaxed and in the moment… acting NATURAL as if it’s no big deal.
Which is kinda confusing to most men… they expect that an approach is supposed to be this super impressive display of bravado or impressive bragging and “selling the girl on stuff”… Which is actually counter-productive and a turn off.
So what are the right was of approaching a girl? Check out this post we wrote here…
Ok… but how do you get started with approaching girls in the first place? You might want to check out our conversation starters post.
