Approaching a girl in the library - Questions from the mailbag
Another place-related question. Gotta love how often we get these!
Q: So there’s this one girls that I like over at the library, and i been wondering, what about approaching a girl in the library? What would you say to a girl who’s studying down at the library.
A: Well first things first. There’s 2 issues here, you’re concentrating on that “one” girl which can only lead to creepiness at this point in time (when you aren’t skilled at effortless approaching and conversing). The second issue is that you are focusing on the details (i.e. the library). Have you used all the informations around this site yet? Are you at the point where you can approach most girls in most places comfortably?
Once you’ve got the basics down, then we can focus on the minutiae details such as an approach for a specific place. The only thing that you would further need to take into account at a library is that women aren’t in a very social mood there (regardless of whether they want to or not), so you need to focus on your approaching attitude and go in with a very low-key and super-relaxed approach… and converse from the very start more in the areas of topics you’d focus on with a girl you’ve already been talking to for 20-3o minutes i.e. the deeper stuff about who she is, and what her passions are etc…
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