You have this fantasy, don’t you? Being able to approach ANY woman, ANY where and be able to strike up a charming, fun conversation where she’s smiling ear to ear just because you approached her…

Ok, that means you’re a normal red-blooded man, we all want that.

So how do you do it? How do you get to this point of being able to go and talk to any girl out there? Well… it’s really really simple (not easy, but simple). All you have to do is systematically remove, one by one, by one all the roadblocks that keep you from doing this.

You just go and first:

1) Develop the habit of approaching women in general – This means first getting the habit of just talking to women on a regular daily basis… But you might say now.. But HOW? Wasn’t that the goal? How is it also the first step? It’s the first step because here we’re concentrating on consistency, on the habit itself, not the quality. Even the most shy of shy guys on the planet has a “type” of woman in a kind of a location he can approach them… barely.  For some guys that might be as low as just asking one middle-aged unattractive woman for the time in a safe environment such as a supermarket. For others it might be just saying “hi, how are you” to unattractive women his age, but only in semi-strange environments… like in the halls of his college or on the bus down to work.

Then…

2) Develop the Quality of the Approach – This means what you say, and how you say it… A higher quality of approach would mean that women on average respond more warmly and enthusiastically… As you’re beginning, you might have to just settle for neutral or even kinda cold responses… and over time you get to the point where you just make every woman you approach smile a HUGE smile and respond warmly and enthusiastically

3) Increase the difficulty of the women approached – This means that over time you start approaching more and more attractive or more and more “difficult” women.

4) Increase the difficulty of the locations in which you approach – This means going from warm environments such as friends’ parties, workplace parties, clubs and organizations you belong to… toward bars and clubs… toward public places like stores, supermarkets, cinemas, libraries, towards eventually streets and parks

That is as much detail as I can get into in a simple article such as this, but if you want more info, maybe read one of the books on how to talk to women, or subscribe to the free course on the right.