http://howtotalktogirls.novicedating.com/how-to-talk-to-girls/how-to-approach-girls/how-to-talk-to-black-women/ The Ultimate Guide On Meeting Girls Fri, 23 Sep 2011 20:29:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://howtotalktogirls.novicedating.com/how-to-talk-to-girls/how-to-approach-girls/how-to-talk-to-black-women/comment-page-1/#comment-7608 Zip Tue, 02 Nov 2010 15:23:42 +0000 http://howtotalktogirls.novicedating.com/2007/how-to-talk-to-black-women/#comment-7608 That “my type of girls are the worst type on the planet” type of a question. is very rude and it shows how much of a pig you really are. That “my type of girls are the worst type on the planet” type of a question.
is very rude and it shows how much of a pig you really are.

]]> http://howtotalktogirls.novicedating.com/how-to-talk-to-girls/how-to-approach-girls/how-to-talk-to-black-women/comment-page-1/#comment-4875 pliskin67 Fri, 08 Jan 2010 04:40:11 +0000 http://howtotalktogirls.novicedating.com/2007/how-to-talk-to-black-women/#comment-4875 I find your argument against the perception of black women as standoffish disconcerting. While it may be true that for many in differing countries the perception of the women indigenous to said country might be perceived of as difficult to talk to, in this instance such an argument completely ignores what may be certain key issues affecting black women in this country, or women in general in any country. Such an argument skips around the issue of race and gender and possibly certain socio-economic causes which may be pertinent to shedding light on this phenomena. While I whole-heartedly agree with your comments regarding self awareness concerning our overall approach to women, I disagree that black women in particular are easy to approach; at least those from certain communities. But what I think the reason is for the proliferation of this stereotype has to do with the approach many black men within said communities have toward black women. Having watched many of the young brothers "court" black women, I find their approach to be very aggressive and often disrespectful. It would seem that many black women have developed thick skins to deal with the casual "gentlemen" caller in response to what often seems like a personal attack more so than a genuine attempt to establish some sort of romantic contact. The sad part about this is that some black women have come to see this aggressive behavior as attractive and a turn on. For instance, some black women will not talk a man or take him serious unless he comes off real strong and disrespectful. To them this may be a sign of virility but it points to some interesting and unfortunate cultural pathologies within some black communities. Indeed, there are social psychological causes of this kind of stand offish behavior stemming from all the negative effects inherent in those communities: poverty, exposure at a young age to drugs, alcohol, sex, lack of strong parenting structure intent on the instilling of virtue (civic or otherwise) with a strong female and male role model present. And also lets not forget the proliferation of a degenerative self image of black woman as objects of sex and men as the brokers of that powerful commodity within the african american pop culture scene; which sadly many of our young black children are exposed to daily. WARNING!!!WARNING!!!! THIS IS NOT AN OVER GENERALIZATION. DO NOT TAKE THESE COMMENTS TO BE REPRESENTATIVE OF THE ENTIRETY OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN OR OTHER AFRICAN DIASPORA PEOPLES OF THE WORLD MALE OR FEMALE: WARNING!!!!WARNING!!!!! I find your argument against the perception of black women as standoffish disconcerting. While it may be true that for many in differing countries the perception of the women indigenous to said country might be perceived of as difficult to talk to, in this instance such an argument completely ignores what may be certain key issues affecting black women in this country, or women in general in any country. Such an argument skips around the issue of race and gender and possibly certain socio-economic causes which may be pertinent to shedding light on this phenomena. While I whole-heartedly agree with your comments regarding self awareness concerning our overall approach to women, I disagree that black women in particular are easy to approach; at least those from certain communities. But what I think the reason is for the proliferation of this stereotype has to do with the approach many black men within said communities have toward black women. Having watched many of the young brothers “court” black women, I find their approach to be very aggressive and often disrespectful. It would seem that many black women have developed thick skins to deal with the casual “gentlemen” caller in response to what often seems like a personal attack more so than a genuine attempt to establish some sort of romantic contact. The sad part about this is that some black women have come to see this aggressive behavior as attractive and a turn on. For instance, some black women will not talk a man or take him serious unless he comes off real strong and disrespectful. To them this may be a sign of virility but it points to some interesting and unfortunate cultural pathologies within some black communities. Indeed, there are social psychological causes of this kind of stand offish behavior stemming from all the negative effects inherent in those communities: poverty, exposure at a young age to drugs, alcohol, sex, lack of strong parenting structure intent on the instilling of virtue (civic or otherwise) with a strong female and male role model present. And also lets not forget the proliferation of a degenerative self image of black woman as objects of sex and men as the brokers of that powerful commodity within the african american pop culture scene; which sadly many of our young black children are exposed to daily.
WARNING!!!WARNING!!!!
THIS IS NOT AN OVER GENERALIZATION. DO NOT TAKE THESE COMMENTS TO BE REPRESENTATIVE OF THE ENTIRETY OF THE AFRICAN AMERICAN OR OTHER AFRICAN DIASPORA PEOPLES OF THE WORLD MALE OR FEMALE:
WARNING!!!!WARNING!!!!!

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