Now, as you now, the whole point of the dating personality quiz is to assess your level. It doesn’t matter if you’re shy or the most popular dude on the block, you still take the quiz in the same way.
Now, you realize that whatever level you are at, is no worse than any of the guys I’ve helped master this area. I mean I’ve helped guys that set world-records in shyness, and the odds of you being that shy are almost impossible. Yet, I helped even them, and they can approach any woman, anywhere today.
With that in mind, what is the way to learn how to talk to girls in the fastest was possible? I’m talking about getting you super-charged turbo-fast progress!
The magical 3 part formula
Always Make Sure To: Accept yourself just as you are. Accept that are you are FINE the way you are. Even if you didn’t talk to a single girl in your life, you ‘re still just as content. It’s kind of hard to explain and grasp this, but it’s crucial, so reread this paragraph until you get it.
Always Make Sure To: Take things slow, set the goals you have about talking to women, and then detach from them. This simply means that you need to accept who you are at this present moment fully and then decided that it doesn’t matter how long it takes for you to learn how to talk to girls… whether it will take you 3 years to just learn how to say hi to an average girl, or just 5 days to approach the hottest girls and be surprisingly direct… you accept both scenarios equally.
Always Make Sure To: Be CONSISTENT. Take whatever it is that you can already do well and do it EVERY SINGLE DAY. If (for example) you are at the level that you can walk up to most women and have a pleasant conversation with them, but hesitate on asking for the number, do NOT force yourself to start asking girls out like mad! Simply:
1) go out and every single day just have a charming conversation wherever you can get it and
2) have the attitude of “I LOVE how I can talk to most girls and have it be a charming fun conversation,… I wish I was asking out more of them or getting their numbers… but that’s ok. I’m on working on this and pretty soon this will happen.
Here’s the magic formula again:
1) Force/push yourself to do EVERY DAY what you can already do easily (be it asking a grandma for the time or talking to 9s)
2) Let the next step happen naturally, don’t push to get the next step down, just expect it, but be just as patient if it doesn’t occur. In the given example it would mean if you’re talking to grandmas, let the next step (asking a girl your age for the time) happen naturally.
Follow this magical formula, and you too in no time will learn how to talk to girls effortlessly and easily
If you need more details on exactly WHAT to do, and more specific plans on learning to approach, look into the analysis from the dating quiz that have helped me with approaching.



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Hi,
ive never been able to talk to girls and have been fine with it. But, now i know this girl and i really like her, the only problem is that i have no self confidence and just freeze up when im around her. what can i do to give me more confidence that will allow me to talk to her, and maybe have a relationship?
i really need help!!!
:S
ln part 1, i left out the dreams i had of my crush naked and kissing me.I was naked too in the dream.IT WAS THE BEST DREAM EVER!!!