Any man who lives in the 21st century has noticed this… most women today stand around the clubs and walk the streets looking as if they are about to shoot someone. What we’ve also been able to notice is that there is a correlation such that the more dressed up and more finely “tuned” the woman is, the more “bitchy” of an expression she’s likely to carry. You can’t help but wonder how to talk to these girls without getting chewed up and spit out!

Now, in regards to the first question about why it is happening… the answer is multifaceted and a result of quite a complex mesh of socio-psychological distortions in that have occurred in the 21st century pop culture… In other words: it’s quite complex, so we’re not even going to talk about it.

The truth is that for practical purposes, all you really need to know is how to talk to these girls. (if anyone really really needs to know the reason why women act this way, shoot me an email and I might write an article), or look into DeAngelo’s explanations.

With that out of the way, what really matters is this:

“Does that expression mean she doesn’t want to be talked to?”

“Does it mean that she’s a mean bitch?”

The answer to both is a very counterintuitive NO!

“Can I talk to these women?”

Yes you can!

What a lot of people on this journey of discovering how to talk to and approach women discover… is that women are NICE… even the bitchiest looking women… the kind that have this expression that says “talk to me and I’ll bury you”, are actually INCREDIBLY nice once you talk to them!

Here’s a HUGE warning though. A lot of men who first start out learning how to talk to girls, initially get a lot of cold and (in the moment seemingly) harsh shutdowns and (perceivably) bitchy reactions. As does any beginner in the skill of talking to women.

This is mostly related to being somewhat creepy and awkward when first trying this stuff out, and will happen with any woman you approach (bitchy looking hot girl, or sunshine giggly girl).

The trouble is that a lot of beginners in talking to women go straight for the “bitchy, mean-looking girls”, get the “bad” interaction and just “prove” to themselves that these women ARE in fact bitches. When in truth, they would have gotten this response from any woman: fat, giggly and smiling or hot, cold-looking and frowning.

Shortened Summary: You are just as likely to get a great interaction with one of the “mean-looking women” as you are with any other woman, and conversing with them is no different. Just keep following the same guidelines and rules to developing your conversational skills that I’m sharing with you in this blog, and in no time you will be charming any woman you meet.