So how do you approach all those hot girls in the mall? Let’s face it… what other place can you go and find so many finely dressed girls in such a non-threatening environment…  Like my results on the secret quiz say… Girls in the mall are great, because they’re not trying to compete with other girls… they’re not being hit on all night by drink guys… they’re just being themselves and doing their daily chores or doing a little shopping.

So, let’s get to answer…How do you talk to girls in the mall? Easy…

1) Point your feet into their direction

2) Start moving until you are within speaking distance

3) Say something

Now was that sarcasm? No, not at all. Just trying to point out the fact that when you’re asking how to talk to girls in the mall, you’re not really asking “how to do it”, because you already know HOW to do it. You want to know how to:

- Do it effectively

- Do it in such a manner that brings forth a pleasant and enjoyable interaction (at the very least)

- And preferably gets you a date with this girl

AWESOME! I’m so glad you’re asking.

Here’s what’s important. In order to approach girls in the mall succesfully, there are 2 criteria you need to fulfill

- Appear normal (i.e. not creep the girl out, as this is not a very ussual place for people to meet strangers) – [you achieve this by being relaxed, calm, cool and collected]

- Appear positive and social (so that you bring her into that state, as malls are not social environments) – [you achieve this simply by talking to her **as if** she is a very good friend that you always have fun conversation with]

How do you get become comfortable, cool and collected in speaking to girls in the mall?

• If you aren’t yet… get pretty confident in approaching and talking to girls in easier situations such as friends parties, work, school etc…
• Pick out some conversation starters from here (or from my emails after you finish the quiz here)
• Start using these conversation starters on the least threatening girls in the mall in a hit&run fashion (just say the conversation starter, get a response, and move on)
• As you get comfortable with just the very ACT of starting the conversation… start prolonging the conversations. Say the conversation starter… say one more thing the move on. Then say the conversation starter, exchange 2-3 more comments/questions back and forth… So and on, wash rinse and repeat until you can approach girls and have a pretty solid pleasant conversation… Use the same process to move on to more and more threatening girls (those which are harder for you).

If you repeat these steps enough time, you will be able to approach any girl in the mall and have a very charming and fun conversation.

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